You’re about to go out with the hottest London escort. Somehow though, you’re not all excited about it because the last time you went out with a hot escort, your expectations were swept under the carpet. She was hot alright, and you enjoyed showing her off. Your friends envied you. The sex part? Boy, oh boy! She scored a 3 out of 10. You’re now cautious because you don’t want to be beaten twice. Well, you have all the reasons to be sceptical. You’re spending some money on her so you should expect value for each pound you churned out for her services. Here’s some good news for you. There are tell-tale signs you can always be on the lookout for when you’re trying to figure out whether or not an escort is good in bed.
First off, it helps a lot if you stick to reputable escorts agencies. If you’re in London for instance, stick to agencies like Amy’s. This is important because agencies often have a reputation to protect. They also hire the best of the best. If you’re looking for a West London escort for instance, stick to the best escorts agencies within the area. That tip aside, you’re in good for a good ride if she exudes any of the following signs.
She’s Good At Oral Sex
It’s hard, almost impossible to be good at sex if you’re bad at oral sex. This is pretty hard to wrap your head around because to many people, oral sex is still part of sex. That is true, only that it is not entirely true. Oral sex is in most cases, a regimen of foreplay. It can also be a good way for one to figure if an escort is good in bed.
Picture this. You’ve had a good date probably at noon. You’re driving out of town for some sightseeing. You know you’ll get laid later in the evening. It is what you’ve agreed. So far so good. You’re enjoying the drive. She suddenly requests you to pull over. What then follows is the best blow job you’ve had in your lifetime. You didn’t see it coming. You never thought much about it. The moment her tongue and your joystick came in contact though, you knew it! You knew it just then that she’s a good one.
Here’s why the oral sex gives her away. First off, blowing anyone by the roadside or in any unusual place calls for confidence. The fact that she pulled one when you least expected and in an unusual place is a good sign she’s ‘wild’ enough to guarantee a good time in bed.
She’s A Good Kisser
The way an escort kisses will often say a lot about her love making prowess. Kissing, as you may have already figured out by now, is not all about using the lips. It is an art which often involves the whole body.
A good kiss will have you desire her the moment her lips and yours come in contact. She may wrap her hands around your neck or even cup your face with her palms. She may then press her breasts into you and slightly moan. Thing is, you’ll know. If the kiss leaves you with palpable sexual anticipation, then yes, she’ll be awesome in bed. Note that it takes two to kiss. That means you have to play your part. First off, don’t be shy. Don’t expect a kiss or two every other second.
Impeccable Communication Skills
You know you’ve struck gold when you come across a London escort who matches your level of conversation. She makes an effort to understand what you’re saying and even find out a thing or two about you. She does this in a way that makes it every easy for you two to talk. This is important because the moment you feel you can connect as you converse, sexual connection becomes inevitable. You just know your energies will connect.
Take this perk for granted at your own risk. Many escorts find it hard to communicate. To many of them, striking up a conversation almost always feels like a tough chore. They may look bored, uninterested or simply out of place. A simple date may then be replete with what feels like a monologue. You ask a question, she gives one answered replies and spends much of the date time on her phone. Find her exact opposite escort and you’re in for a good ride.
Here’s the thing. If her communication skills are impeccable, she’ll be confident too. She’ll voice her needs with ease when you’re together. That alone, can spice up bedroom moments in a way you’ll live to remember.
She’s A Good Dancer
Dancing is all about rhythm. If she has good rhythm on the dance floor, she’ll certainly have rhythm in bed too. Note that she doesn’t have to be extremely good at dancing. She just needs to be slightly above average.
There’s a reason sex is often compared to dancing. The way she sways her body and dances to the rhythm is pretty much the same way she’ll move with you in bed. The next time you hit the dance floor, be keen on her hip movement. Be keen too on how well she enjoys the music. Does she seem lost in the moment without a care in the world? Treat that moment as a preview of what awaits you behind closed doors.
She’s Open To New Ideas
An open mind, willing to try out new things is yet another sign a woman is good in bed. Notably, even mundane things like changing the restaurant can give you a sneak peek of what awaits you in bed. If she’s unwilling to try out new fun ideas. If she doesn’t even suggest them, then be prepared for bland sex. Chances are, she won’t be willing to try new sex positions.
She Knows Her ‘Stuff’
How many sex positions does she know of? Does she explain why some positions are better than others? Does she talk openly and without flinching about deal breakers and what makes her weak and wet? This may sound like a far-fetched way to gauge how good a woman is in bed but it is by far one of the most accurate determinants.
Why and how else would a woman be well versed with sex positions if she isn’t good at sex? She’ll know from the many sex positions she’s tried before what works well for her and what doesn’t. She’ll then keep you engaged as you have sex. She’ll moan to what feels good and flat out tell you what doesn’t feel good. In short, she won’t fake orgasms.
This doesn’t mean that she should be a gym freak. Sex – good sex – demands for energy. If you’ll be at it for hours over the weekend, then you really should be fit. Note too that being fit doesn’t mean she shouldn’t have weight issues. As far as sex is concerned, being fit has a lot to do with cardio as well as flexibility.
Like already said, sex is like working out. Train your body for it and it’ll respond. You’ll ultimately become good in bed. This applies to both men and women. It doesn’t end there. There’s also something incredibly sexy about women who take care of their bodies in a bid to feel as healthy as possible. Such kind of commitment often transfers over to the bedroom.
She Wittily Flirts
Girls who are good in bed often know all the naughty foreplay ideas to thrill a man. Think of it this way. Flirting is one of the surest ways to spark up sexual feelings and emotions. Say the right words in a certain way and you’ll have a prospect swoon over you. Fortunately, this is a skill that solely hinges on creativity more than anything else. If she can’t crack that code and be creative enough to flirt and arouse, then she isn’t any good in bed. Flirting as already hinted, is part and parcel of foreplay and know how bad and bland sex feels without foreplay.
She’s working as an escort. That alone should give you a hint that she’s confident. Over and beyond what she does for a living, she should exude confidence in many other ways. How well does she express her feelings? Does she talk about what she needs without flinching? She could for instance, let you know way in advance that it’s been a while since she had good sex. She’ll then lets you know she doesn’t expect you to let her down. Now, this hardly ever happens with escorts. Many of them just want to get over and done with dates. They hardly take a moment to enjoy their dates. You then meet a rare breed. Sexy enough to arouse you and confident enough to say what she wants without hesitation. You’ve struck gold.
This one doesn’t get talked about often but it is yet another vital sign that she’s good in bed or you will at the very least, enjoy sex without feeling grossed out. If she’s clean, smells nice and is generally hygienic, then there’s a good chance you’ll enjoy your time together. If on the other hand she struggles with basic hygiene, like taking care of her breathe for instance, then brace yourself for underwhelming sex.
Sex is in many cases the epitome of a good time with an escort. Take sex out of the picture and many escorts will be out of business. For a man, it helps to know that he can and should expect good sex from the escort he’s paying to be with. With all the aforementioned signs, you can have a good chance weighing up what to expect.